Sometimes you might wonder, "WHY is she with him??"

Let's say your good friend Kim has been with Tommy for several months and the relationship seems to be getting serious. Kim often tells you how happy she is with Tommy and at times brags about how wonderful a guy he is. All is flowers and daisies and you are genuinely very happy for Kim.

Months pass by and you can tell this relationship for Kim has become her priority #1. When she flakes on you because she wants to spend time with Tommy, she asks you to understand her position and tells you a good friend would support her decision instead of compete against her boyfriend for attention.

You want Kim to be happy and understand how much this relationship means to her so you comply. You are 100% supportive of her and wishes her and Tommy the best. Until... one day, Tommy makes a move on you. Not that he really likes you, but he just wants you.

Ugh the feeling of "wtf?"

It is difficult to be in this position because you wish this never happened, you wish everything Kim was telling you about how great they were together could've been true and Tommy wasn't such a ___ character. You decide to let Kim know his gesture and tell her how uncomfortable you feel. Instead of thanking you for telling the truth about her man and how you feel, Kim becomes jealous of you and starts distancing herself from you because you are no longer supportive of their relationship.

Did I mention, WTF?

You feel unjustice of all kinds. How do you resolve this situation?

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